(I’m sorry, I don’t date women so I don’t know the psychopathic clues for them. Maybe a commenter can tell us.)
- Love of cooking is common among them, not always a red flag, but take notice in conjunction with these other flags …
- Love of biking extremely long distances (here in Florida anyway.)
- Love to be adrenaline hunters.
- Love to promise to not conduct themselves like idiots and play emotional games. Does that need saying? It’s bait for already emotionally played women desperately seeking solace.
- Love of writing wordy prose that seems earnest on first glance, but is devoid of emotional content. Word salad.
- Love to flat out tell you what a truly amazing guy he is and that you would be lucky to have him. Lots of them have no sense of propriety nor humility. Ugh, it’s wearying.
- Love to send overly excited reactions to items in your profile: “OMG! I love the same things!!!!” Makes you feel real good, don’t it.
- Love to share lengthy stories with extraneous details of their life that have no relativity to your new introductions. You’re made to feel like you’re already a close friend. “My boss’s daughter was building a house … blah blah blah …”
- Love to talk endlessly about their numerous former relationships. This may be an attempt to groom you into behaving like a past (maybe present) girlfriend: “She would always stand at the door and wait for me to open it.” “She offered to pay for half of the meal.” Stop it, asshole, I’m not her/them. Also, bore snore.
- Love to demand lots more pics of you immediately via text, (to add to his pic collection of gullible people).
- Love to introduce the subject of sex really soon. I sat down for a first date lunch and before 30 minutes was up, I learned all the gory details of his S&M experiences. Boundary check much?
- Love to call or text you early in the morning for no reason, and/or later at night than the social norm. Boundary check? Or love-bombing?
- Love to leave you hanging, then act like nothing happened. Below is an example. Also note, this guy is pouring on the garbage and some bizarre love-bombing. How does he know that I am “truly charming” and also “so full of sensual passion”, since we only just texted boring introductions the night before? I feel really sorry for the women who fall prey to this “superficial charm”.
- Love to barrage you with interview questions, requesting every detail of your life in a short amount of time.
- Love to offer enticements that get your hopes up: “I do a lot of traveling to exotic places, and it would be great for you to come along.” Moral of the story: Don’t get your hopes up.
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